Why are homeschoolers not allowed to have a bad day?

I need to vent here today.  Why is it that a homeschooling parent or SAHM is not allowed to have a bad day?  Maybe I’m alone in this, but there have been many days over the last 7 years where my bad day has only been made worse by people who just don’t get it.

When someone who works outside the home says they’ve had a bad day, no one thinks twice about it.  No one tells them to quit their job.  Many even give them a little break and try to be extra nice to them.  We may even offer to listen while they vent about their rough day.

But if a SAHM or a homeschooling parent says the same thing, people ask why they do it or suggest you send your kid to public school.  Some even go a step farther and wonder aloud how ‘just staying home’ could be all that bad.

I am happy with my choice to be a SAHM and to home school my kiddos.  That does not mean that every day will be wonderful.  Like everyone else, we sometimes have a bad day and just want to vent a little.

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3 comments on “Why are homeschoolers not allowed to have a bad day?

  1. I couldn’t agree with you more! What’s more, is trying to keep any slight irritation in because we aren’t allowed to be anything but chipper adds to the pressure to perform perfectly!

    I’ve learned who the few good people are to talk to if I need, and everyone else thinks rainbows and lollipops are made from the happiness radiating from our home.

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